Aphephilia, you would have to still act like even more of a contortionist to get control out my statements. If society urges people to utilize better dental hygiene, flossing, brushing, etc., is it control? Why is urging couple to refrain from having more than one or two children seen as "control".
As to your allegation of overpopulation as a myth, you would have a hard time proving that one in a time of per capita diminishment of resources, ocean, water, and air quality, increasing congestion, lowering of quality of life, increasing infrastructure costs, etc.
You ask, "When this happens, who will take care of the aged? Who will pay into Social Security?" Ask George W. Bush. He wants the aged to take care of themselves and he wants to do away with Social Security?